So today was somewhat bittersweet, we are wrapping up details on my husbands move from our home. We had to coordinate meeting at the bank to have the title of the car transferred over to my name, this is just the first of many things that will need to be taken care of, but surly the most time intensive. In order to save myself from looking like an insensitive snob I will spare you the comedic relief that the fellow patrons at the Bureau of Motor Vehicles provided me, but keep in mind it was, well let's just put out this way, I will be going back with a snack and Sidekick.
Figuring out how to sort out the details of a life you built with someone is not going to be easy, but I know for my happiness and I hope for his as well it will be as swift and painless as possible.
Sometimes people think you should stay married and complacent for the sake of your children, I tried this for a number of years. Trust me when I say life is way to short to be complacent. We are put here for such a short time and it our job to enjoy the gift that has been given to us. I now look at my life as a journey and I plan on stopping at all the tourist traps along the way.
Be happy my friends, look at everyday as the gift it is, if you wake up and it is raining think of the flowers that will thrive because of the rain. Love and light.
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